(I hope not to offend anybody in this blog)
I Don't understand why people self harm, I personally see it as a way of people craving attention when all it does is hurt the people around them. They wallow in their self pity finding ways of getting attention from all angles if they have a problem then why not get the help they need, if they speak up then people will be around to help.
I found out one of my friends self harmed to be honest it did ruin me, no doubt about it. I'm meant to be their friend yet I wasn't doing a good enough job to make them feel good about their lives. I want to say that I'm there to help whenever they need it, your my bff for life and it scares me to know that I could wake up and your gone forever it makes me cry right now to think about it. I don't want to loose you, I'll have to start watching shitty horrors on my own, who will I have to just talk about random rubbish with and we understand how each one feels about things. Who will I have to remember the memory about the banana peel which you just seemed over excited about.
I can't share those memorys with anybody else, you have me to help you because I'm not ready to loose you.
Don't give up so easy.
everything u say is so true....sweetie
ReplyDelete:) Although all my blogs are opinions I think (hope) a lot of people think the same and that it all helps :) x
ReplyDeleteLucky me, both of my exes self-harmed. I couldn't stand it - I didn't understand (and still don't, and most likely never will) why they would harm themselves, and I hated the though that they might take it too far one day.
ReplyDeleteI mean, fair enough, they're having a hard time. But how does causing themselves physical damage improve anything? They're just stacking one kind of pain on top of another. It's a bit being blind in one eye and poking the other out to lessen the pain of being partially sighted. I just don't get these people.
like hurting yourself to stop the pain, i know what you mean, i dont understand why they do it either, there are many other ways of stoppin the mental/emotional pain
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